Should I email her back again? or should the next time I bring it up be when I just come out and tell her what extra days I will be taking our sons?
I feel she is referring back to when she left, what was said, what was done etc. I feel she is not listening to me because of that.
I could do the same - dwell on the past and get nowhere. There was a major crisis happening back then - a lot of heat of the moment things were said and done. Heck, when she mentioned she was contemplating our marriage..I was scared. I started seeking legal advice online - she had written in her journal that she felt I was acting prematurely about it. A month later she was outta there. Guess I wasn't eh? She didn't plan things over night - she knew what she was going to do and say well before she presented the idea to me - she knew she was going to be a WAW. Time to move forward now.
I feel she may also be taking some time to analyze this herself, and what worries me about this is that she processes what I say into her own version. She will completely miss what I said, my point, what I want and why. That happened a lot in our marriage, those communication break downs. I take a lot of blame in that.
That is why I worked hard on the emails we had today - I felt I was very diplomatic and to the point. I did not want there to be anything she could "rip apart" and piece back together in her own understanding. But then again, I guess I am trying to control in that respect...she will see it the way she chooses.
