punkin - thank you for the laugh on this Friday morning! Ah, the conundrum!
In my case the OW is a 27 year old who has been married for 3 years and about the time my husband started questioning his life, she found out she can't have children. So she is going through her own MLC I suppose (blah-blah-blah) well she won't even get to be a stepmom if she stays with my husband cause my Ds will hate her forever.
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12