Blindsided, Just served with papers!

[TimeHeals]

I think my W is just one that wants out of M, just tired of it,

Well, as far as actions so far... seperations and preparing for divorce pretty much say just that. Not trying to mind read here however.

I need to keep that thinking going forward

Why? That too is an expectation. Why not remain open, take care of business, take care of your kids, and take care of yourself, and brush up on your charm and flirting skills ?

Right now you are headed for divorce. But you don't know about the future.