I am 49 my W is 28 T = 6 yrs M = 4.5 yrs My EA = 6/08 to 8/08 LYBNILWY me to W 6/08
We reconciled by sweeping the EA under the rug in August 08 and W internalized the hurt. I apologized this last Monday and also told her that I wanted her to be happy so I am letting her go. I semi let her go about 3 weeks ago and was dark prior to that. That is when she sent me a "Thank You" for forwarding her a message regarding a Dr's appointment. It appears each time I do not initiate contact or a friendly reminder via email that she responds in some way. Last night she initiated the email.
I am learning to be patient and communicate sparringly. After her 1st email response I overwhelmed her with 3 or 4 emails including an open invite for a coffee...pure push. I am doing 180's with my emails by showing no anger or lack of patience, which was something that she was concerned about prior to the seperation. And I am working towards GAL.
So following the path to reconcilation I am attempting to remove negative feelings at this time.
