The W has been fishing. By this I mean that IMO she has been asking me questions about the past relationships I have had...what I did while we were dating...went through some phone records and asked me about a woman I was calling from school..and just been intentionally, I believe, being very hypocritical about our R.
This has been broken up with moments of, "I am sorry for everything I have done" comments and such. I really was able to stay away from the nastiness and keep things on a friendly level.
This morning, much earlier than her usual wake-up time I received a txt asking if I had ever called her friend Stan's secretary and asked if he was married.
I did this right when I had come back to the boards and entered the MLC area. I know quite stupid and childish ect ect, but can't change it now.
I did not really say yes or no but just asked why, when I am starting to get my life together she keeps bringing these things up. When she pressed I simply asked if she was free to discuss weekend scheduling for the kids. She told me, "thanks. Now I am WName* with the creepy ex." I replied simply, "What am I?"
I got no answer to that, but was asked not to do it again. I told her she was up early and that she should go make our children a nice breakfast.
I am now just sitting back and waiting. I know there are a bunch of She dids up there, but just wanted some vanting time. From going through others posts, I see this seems to be following the pattern. I have thought for some time and am now quite sure that my W will roll this around in her head until her behavior is minimized and mine is to blame.
I dread the day she may crash though, and the fact that I can never know when or if it will come. This is the next thing I seem to have to drop away.
Well, I am striving to focus on the three day coming up and I hope you all enjoy yours.
