I assume he knows the A isn't okay with me! As I said, we really haven't talked. Before he admitted I told him that we should fight for the M, but after, he just said he was leaving, gave me choices and I told him my decision.
I see the first two lines are really wimpy. I just somehow want to tell him that I'm not waiting forever. He asked me right before he left if I would ever take him back. I hesitated and then said, I think so, with conditions, of course. I guess I'm trying to make that point clear and then I want to have no contact with him while I'm in PA. I also signed up for divorcecare while I'm in PA. And I think I've bought every book out there on divorce recovery. I want to be as ready as possible and be able to move on with my life. I don't think it will do any harm, being ready for single life, if he would get his head out of his butt.
Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11 DB #1 4/2002-8/2003 Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out Living with OW