Originally Posted By: Doodi
My IC says that I have so much anger, pain, and resentment with very little trust in H and those are the things she believes will keep us from working.


Your IC is 100% correct.

Originally Posted By: Doodi
*H's language is absolutely touch. I've tried to give him some of what he needs but he constantly is coming for kissing/sex. I'm just not there.


I think this is very natural. When you have been so hurt by someone else, it's hard to be intimate with them in that way. In fat, it has the opposite effect. Makes you feel empty in a way. So what you are feeling is natural. I think men can be more physical about sex than women whereas we tie sex into our heads/emotions.