Thanks Joeli,

I will keep that in mind the next time I email her. I have only sent 4 or 5 emails in 8 weeks. Mostly saying "Hello I hope all is well with you and your orientation(new job)." The only one where I admit to the A was the apology email that I sent this week. My W is a very sentimental person. She has even kept rose petals from roses that I sent her 6 years ago. I think knowing her she is keeping them for sentimental reasons...I pray that my sitch does not get down and dirty like apparently is.