Well, my wife is moving tomorrow at 9am. She told me what she is taking in the way of furniture. She finally admitted to me that she has filed for divorce and that she does not want to reconcilliate. I just listened and told her that the door was opened if she wanted to come back in the future but that I felt there would need to be individual and joint therapy if we were to get back together again. I then went for a walk and I must say I am quite angry and upset at present. I told her I would not be around for the next 2 days and that she was to lock the house when she leaves. Now I have to stay focused on me and my kids. I am still going out with friends this weekend. Bobby o