John,

I would be shocked if there was OM prior to her leaving. My W dedicated so much of her time from Jan to May with school. She wanted a certain GPA for a future Masters. I know because I edited all of her paper and believe me there were many. From May to June she focued on the NCLEX exam for her RN license and I helped her study for that as well. I also took her to Spain and Turkey for two weeks in June.

My W is a smart lady, but I don't think that she could have juggled all of that and worked at the hospital. And besides with my paranoria I had spyware on my pc and the only thing I saw was her looking for Aparments every time we had a fight. I thought it was her mechanism for blowing off steam.

She may have a guy now, but I do not know where she lives and I do not know her phone number and besides I don't want to waste energy now speculating. I do know that she has kept all of my emails that I sent her since she left.....why is that (they are all positive and not increminating).