Don't they leave themselves open to such obvious comments that biting your tongue is so difficult! It sounds like you are doing great, the missing H has to be hard, but you are getting through this and having some fun. The 3 Ls I have seen all have said that there is no benefit to me filing vs. H, so until I firmly believe it is the right thing to do, I will hold off. I believe we will know when the time has arrived. I sure hope so.
Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11 DB #1 4/2002-8/2003 Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out Living with OW