John,

The A was June 08 to Aug 08. My wife (married Dec 05) concoted a couple of schemes in July and Aug 08 that snapped me out of my fog.

I said in my original post that my wife never pulled away and in fact we were like a newly wed couple weeks and days before she left. In fact I could see it in her eyes and the glow of her smile Friday, July 2nd. She left once she got her RN license and had a job lined up at the nearby hospital. I wrote he resume' her letter for the interviews abd her Than you letters. She left whe she had security.