Fait ~ Thanks for the reminder that it's not all about H. I forget that most times.

CW ~ Financially it won't matter who files. I just don't want to do it and then regret it the rest of my life.

Bluestar ~ I am trying my best to be in the present moment with DS. We had a great day today where I didn't think that much about H. I am not sure if it would be taking back the power or throwing more gas on the fire if I file under adultery as my grounds. Not sure my L can help with the money he owes me, that's more family court matters than divorce court because almost all of it pertains to DS.


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