I am being honest. All of the things she brought up I cannot argue against. Other than when she stated that she wanted to leave 6 yrs ago she was making wedding arrangements then. I have done a lot of reflecting, which has helped me develop my plans for 180's. I was controlling, jealous, manipulative, sought the affection of OW....etc. I have focued on the past me, but not dwelled in it (that much anyway) so that I can be a better me.
