I didn't know a thing about the Chilean minors until today. In the past I would have. My W use to watch with me, but she would not allow her blood to boil like I did. Although, she cannot see me not watching the news it does allow me to stay calm (180), which helps me stay positive when I write her an email. So I think she can see after 60 days of no communication that I have not become angry (one of the litany of things she brought up when she left me).
I have not brought up R or M and the only push was the open invite and I added a little humor as well as empathy since I told her that I realize that she may not be ready to meet.
