I don't know if I can explain it, but for me... once I got over the whole being dumped thing and figured out just how unhealthy my M was, and once I started to feel better and learn more about myself, I was kind of glad what happened did happen.
Then I discovered something else: my STBXW is really a very amazing woman. I mean that. I find her intriguing, and I am glad we've had this opportunity to grow. I am happier now than I have been in a very, very long time. Maybe happier than ever.
And that's with D-day in 11 days
I agree with Coach. Why be nasty and rude?
Last edited by TimeHeals; 09/03/1001:47 AM.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-