I was a Fox and CNN news junky and my W use to watch it with me. However, one of her issues with me was that I would get angry too much. I realized that she was right so one of my 180's was to find other avenues for entertainment that would not get my blood boiling.
You are right in that she will not see that. However, all of my coorespondence with her via email has been positive. I have not brought up R or M and really the only push that I gave her was an open invite to have a coffoe or coke at a local resturaunt.
Although, I am going crazy with her silence I am attempting to show patience and understanding. Even the open invite I stated that I realize that she may not be ready to meet so it was an open invitation.
In regard to the mail. I will put it in the box and send her a very short email stating that. I will probably not put the forwarding sheet in there because this is my only opening to show that I care at this time.