You both recommend that I stay dark? I apologized to her earlier this week and let her go as well. I thought I would put the mail in the box and send her a quick email in the AM saying "W mail is in the box." Or say nothing at all.
Coach seems to think that I should not go dark since communication is a premium, but get rid of the negative feelings and work on becoming friends, which would mean I would write the quick email and put the mail in the box.
I feel like I am walking in a minefield. I think going dark worked a few weeks ago when I also semi let her go....but the reconcilation stages seem to make since as well.
Coach is always right in my book.
But since she wants her mail and asked you to leave it in the mailbox, I would communicate back to tell her that if that is what she wants she should make arrangements to forward it to wherever she is living now.
