You both recommend that I stay dark? I apologized to her earlier this week and let her go as well. I thought I would put the mail in the box and send her a quick email in the AM saying "W mail is in the box." Or say nothing at all.
Coach seems to think that I should not go dark since communication is a premium, but get rid of the negative feelings and work on becoming friends, which would mean I would write the quick email and put the mail in the box.
I feel like I am walking in a minefield. I think going dark worked a few weeks ago when I also semi let her go....but the reconcilation stages seem to make since as well.