That sounds good pookie. I have to practice calming down first and then trying to look at the situation coolly.
I just feel like the recent fights are just scratching the surface and we're arguing on something that was on hand but because the subjects are so off the wall, I feel like there's something deeper going on, but we're avoiding the real issue. Maybe I'm mind reading.
I am no expert here about saving my R but I have learned over the years how to listen and respond without further fueling the situation.
Is there a particular topic that does not start an argument?