Originally Posted By: ris
That sounds good pookie. I have to practice calming down first and then trying to look at the situation coolly.

I just feel like the recent fights are just scratching the surface and we're arguing on something that was on hand but because the subjects are so off the wall, I feel like there's something deeper going on, but we're avoiding the real issue. Maybe I'm mind reading.


I am no expert here about saving my R but I have learned over the years how to listen and respond without further fueling the situation.

Is there a particular topic that does not start an argument?


Last edited by pookie69; 09/03/10 12:46 AM.

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