Can some of you comment here and confirm I have this right, as I'm newly refreshing, deepening my GAL, dimness/darkness: If he texts or calls me, wait to respond, business only, but friendly, right? No social invitations (I haven't given those for a while)and only accept SOME from him?

As I mentioned I've been dim for quite some time, but need to protect myself from him more than I have done so far. My wish is that it would be "right" for us to communicate, hang out, but it isnt' so, stay dim/dark. This is the logic, correct? Because it feels weird and need to refesh that I'm doing it correctly (I know it's a little different for each situation).

THANK YOU


M--14 years
T--20 years, HS sweethearts
dday #1--2002 EA
dday #2--2005 bar sl*t
dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what
Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years