I am in the middle of this mess, and making lots of mistakes (ain't that right, Puppy?), but I know that trying to be the perfect W was not working at all. DBing advice only works if both parties are into it.
H32 Me32 together:10 M:5 No kids ILYBINILWY 7/28/10 OW found 8/15 A exposed 8/31 I Move 9/3 Dark 10/1