Puppys Short Version, All-Inclusive Advice for WAS

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I'll take Marlon Brando

lol

Nice choice!!!

I can't quite lay claim to that title yet until I get thrown off the forum... lol

Ahhh yes, that would be the "Chocolateeyes St. Valentine's Day Massacre Award!"

[Allen A]

Hey, I almost got the boot back in January lol

[Mike.4545]

I really like this conversation. I'd like to contribute my perception of how these concepts fit together based on all the excellent advice I've received here from Puppy, Allen, and others. Again these are not my ideas, but just how I've framed them in my mind.

If anyone has any comments, corrections, concerns, etc...Have at it! I'm doing my best to continue learning!

I illustrated this as a generic case of marital infidelity based on what seems to be a very common series of events for a lot of stories here.

As you'll notice...I like illustrations...they work well with my simple mind LOL!

[Mike.4545]

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Well...I thought it would just show up...but you can see it by clicking that link.

[JinBK]

Nice flowchart!

I am in the middle of this mess, and making lots of mistakes (ain't that right, Puppy?), but I know that trying to be the perfect W was not working at all. DBing advice only works if both parties are into it.

[Allen A]

That's a sweet chart mike.

Check out this youtube clip of the show Cheaters.

This woman was engaged, two days before her wedding her fiancee catches her cheating with his best friend .. and the best friend was already dating the maid of honour...

The killer? The betrayed guy was giving his wife a HOUSE for their wedding gift.. yup, he bought a house secretly and in two days she would have found out... But they caught her cheating and the whole thing blew up on her

The cheating fiancee lost :

HER best friend Jill
Her would be husband in two days
Her affair partner

Her mind.. She ended up going into a psych ward

Was all that worth it? lol

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LEbkRLBoXOg

[Allen A]

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Well...I thought it would just show up...but you can see it by clicking that link.

Try this one Mike.. I added a lot from yours...

I think we need to add that left arrow in there still.. I love that... busy diagram still lol

http://24.141.78.27/ABProcess.gif

[DumpedforMIL]

you left out the "it's me not you" line.

[Allen A]

Yup.. Sorry, I just didn't have room... There's too many excuses ... It would clutter up in the chart lol

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Off topic

Why would a man propose to ONE woman while he's secretly having an affair with a different woman?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2u8huh2cJ7U&feature=related

Makes no sense to me...

[4myboys]

Hey guys - how do you go completely dark when you have kids (one of whom is disabled)? Also when you have to see him at soccer games and other random functions?