No...absolutely not today. Today is time to take a breather from all of this. However, at some point, CD will need to consider the "shock & awe" method down the road if there is still NO movement from W. I'd wait a bit more...two weeks or so since OM apparently is going to start school very soon.
There are some pieces that need to be cleared up and confirmed with some intel gathering:
1) A still ongoing with OM? 2) W moved out of OM's house? 3) Where is W currently at the moment?
So many unanswered questions. And what are the contents of W's text to CD? This information will give us some indicators as to where things currently stand with W.
CD...we stand ready to support you. And a good job of not biting...this shows that you've progressed further along the path and finding that inner resolve not to react. Good job!