Ps- this doesn't change anything, still moving out and all of that. But at least I'm not having an anxiety attack every couple of minutes. I don't believe all of it, but I am putting some into it not being his. Is that naive of me?
I don't think it matters to be honest.. Your husband had a marriage with problems in it, as most do... He was at a crossroads and had a choice
a. Work on the problem b. Escape
He chose b)
That's all you need to know...
HOW he chose to escape matters very little... The extent of his escape? I suppose one could weigh his character based on how much damage he's doing...
But for YOU, the point I think is moot.
It's not healthy for you OR you son to be around him right now... His ex wife should know better than to allow her sons around him too... Him, OW, and their liefstyle is just a big drama class you want to avoid at all costs...
The only reason I reccomended eBlaster is so you can be informed to better protect you and your son... I get the feeling that has at least helped out some knowing what's going on with the PC
But..
I really don't think what drama is going on in his life matters at all to you... It shouldn't... Once you see its unhealthy you get AWAY from it and get YOURSELF into a healthier life... you by association with him have no doubt things you can change for your better...
