I would not tell the stbex why I went dark, all she knows is I don't initiate any contact with her, her phone calls don't always get answered, and I not hanging around kissing her butt. Will this save my marriage? I doubt it. But I feel better and she no longer has any control over me. My marriage is dead and gone but still she is starting to call me we have been gray for 3 months.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
