allen, been absent from this forum for a while. this thread gave me much to think about. i give updates on my main thread. but the stuff i learned here, has been stuck in my head for a while now.
i can't be nice to the mil for the sake of saving my m. it's not the right thing to do. it wouldn't help and i would back here quicker than you could say "cleveland". being nice to the mil would be enabling.
if you asked me if i would rather be right or married .. i would say there is no good answer to that. because both would lead me no where.
there is no other way. this m is doa.
i'm so unhappy right now. i don't want to get all whiny or think 'oh poor me'. but what do you do to move on from this? i GAL but a huge part of me wishes d-day would come sooner.
i'm getting really tired of this process. the back and forth between L's. they are dragging their feet on our sep agreement.
