Said she still feels oppressed in my presence. ouch.
"Why do you feel that way?" Follow up on that with her.
Then validate, don't get defensive, let her spew, keep your boundaries about CB.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
