Ms. H, The games he is playing will eventually do him more harm than good. Contact the school and request information about what you need. Do not rely on this person for anything in the way of information or actual assistance. Unless there's something in it for him, you not get anything out of him. In other words, he's unreliable and a pain in the @ss because he's acting out.
As for him not feeling safe around you...that's bs and he's playing it to the tune of tit for tac. Continue emailing when you need something from him, but don't buy into anything he says.
I do hope that you enjoy the holiday weekend.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
