I agree with you not wanting to be mean to H in order to not affect the D settlement, but on the otherhand, it still did seem a little too accomadating given the circumstances. Like you said, it's not your problem. No need to call him or discuss it - just letting him know the notice was received so he can deal with it is still being nice. That probably sounds a little harsh and don't get mad, but he needs to learn consequences for his actions. This is one of the things he's been lacking with his inmaturity all along. It't not being resentful or mean, it's just him needing to learn to deal with life.

But on the complete opposite side, soo sweet about S!!! I love and cherish those mommy times too. =) Great news about the dentist. Glad it went well!


Me 27; H 28; S 2
Togeth 9; M 4
Sep 11/14/08
EA OW1 Sep 08
EA OW2 Mar 09
EA OW3 Jun 10

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Current: http://tinyurl.com/2etp7c9