The kids should feel they can come and talk to us about anything without fear. I know it's difficult at times but we're the adults so we should just suck it up and be there for them. I know CTH from his posts, he loves his kids, he is a GREAT dad so he'll find a way to put his feelings aside and allow his kids to share their feelings freely.
Wii is a great example too...his teenage daughters bond with him more than their mom!...I hope my little one feels that way with me too. It's not easy being a parent and it's twice as difficult being a single parent.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again