Well, I'm glad you are contesting. You tried to work things out in a far more gentle manner and your H CHOSE not to cooperate so contest away! Maybe once he sees you are not fooling around he will wise up and perhaps see the benefit of working WITH you instead of against you.
It took my H 18 months to get that concept through his thick skull. He finally understood the night before our trial. Funny what motivates people to get on board.
Hopefully this will be a positive turning point for the legal side of things. If not, well, use your resources. A voodoo curse or two never hurt
