pinhead, my H agreed to MC while separated to reconcile, and still had the A going on because he "couldnt break it off with her". Ohh and he said I was crazy to the Councelor cause "he never had an affair". So going to MC was no turning point for us.
I am sorry you are confused. Maybe at some point and I strongly suggest that, you should clarify things. Most LBs in similar sitches are afraid a confrontation will ruin their chances, I believe fear is the worst advisor in this case. I havent read your story but at some point, you must be very clear about what you need (if you havent done that). A lukewarm reconcilliation (which I've experienced for a year) is horrible and will do bigger damage in the long run,
