I know you are feeling very badly right now. I have been there and I will tell you...

Originally Posted By: Doodi
I actually wish he had an EA/PA so I could rationalize things better.


If he was having an EA/PA, it may make you undrestand his actions better but it does so much harm. I used to think this way about my H too. But knowing that it did happen, broke something inside me when he told me (I'm a little dramatic today lol). I will never look at his face and see him the same again.

As for the fog, it does lift. And I agree with the poster who said you cannot expect him to make the decision for you. Limbo sucks for everyone involved.