Now is the time to lead in the R with your W. I might suggest that you use this next time "I am not going to argue with you. I will discuss this with you when we are both calm"
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....I did tear-up in front of them....
We men have been raised to stuff our emotions. I would like to recommend some emotional release work. I do this by watching sad movies alone...or with someone I trust...I also focus hard on feeling all the feelings.
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...I am very busy....
Busy is good. be sure to balance. Busy/Relax
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Still lots to do to get cleaned-up and organized around here, but I did get ALL of my stuff out of the old house.
I had fun doing this...making the house a home...my way.
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..Blondie...
enjoy her. learn from her. And all the other ladies
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Don't need anything serious at the moment.
Have fun. Lots of recommendations to wait about 2 years before moving to more serious. "I am casually dating" worked for me.
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...I can't help but wonder if this is truly the end. Just don't know.
It is what it is. Best thing I can recommend is to enjoy RIGHT NOW, from now on....
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.. I think I am doing ok...
You are doing great. You did not get stuck. Keep moving forward...I see you are supporting others. Supporting others helps me when issues come up...sort of a already been there done that...
Party on!
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712