Thanks for clearing this up Puppy. I will remain dark, but cordial and nice.
If she brings up me being dark again, I'll just say that I really need some time to myself to think about all this and I just want to be alone right now.
I do know by now that she will counter that in some way by: a) being in distress and asking for help b) putting pressure on me to get back talking to her again by talking D or L.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch