I am reading so many strategies on these posts that my head is spinning.
WAW has not initiated communication with me in 60 days: 1. I apologized to her for my A - On Monday via email 2. I let my W go - In the same apology email 3. I am doing 180's - via the emails that I have sent to her by showing patience, friendship and a little humor. If I follow 180's then I would not acknowledge my W's b-day next week. But if I do not acknowledge her b-day it is an opportunity to show friendship (counter to letting her go). My gut says no acknowledgement, but I have been wrong so many times since this thing started. I really do need advice from the vets. What would they do???????If I do not acknowledge her b-day then I hold true to letting her go, but if I do acknowledge her b-day don't I confuse her and then I lose credibility (cry wolf)?
I apologize for the hand holding, but I am reading and following the DB/DR and it is theory...I need advice from people who have put the theory into practice. It took me 5 weeks to find this place before that I was following advice from the other relationship gurus out there.
