Yep - she sure did. Whatever you do, don't answer her. If you do, make it MUCH later. Don't let her know you've thought about this being anniversary day at all! The status/text/call are tests to see if she still has you where she wants you.
Well, that's my guess anyway. If you do decide to respond, make it upbeat about something totally irrevelant to R and her. I'm glad you didn't take her call or respond to her text.
