I feel like I don't have time to do any of that. My H wants answers/changes now.
As for support, I think I've overstepped and bored all of them. Most of my friends just say, they will be there with whatever I decide but it's up to me.
It just doesn't seem to make sense to me that everyone is expecting the most confused person to make the life changing choices.
Then you need to help him get some insight. Maybe you need to get him on this forum. Let's see what the veterans think about that. Normally, this is supposed to be a resource for one spouse, not both, but in this instance if he got some support and insight it might take the pressure off you.
