Nice, Yoda! :-)

I DO agree. I guess I wanted to consider the "negative" perspective because I didn't want to deter myself from my course. If I just took his actions as, "Oh yay - he's coming around!" then I might do that. If I consider the other side, it keeps me more determined to do what is best for me, regardless!

SO: I thought I was doing good by doing that! LOL. I get the point though: positive OR negative, don't try to mind read or project reasons where there are none. You're right, of course, because even if the reasons are positive or negative, they could change tomorrow anyway.