"I always thought we would be friends and now you don't even want that. I can't understand how you go to always returning my calls to not talking to me at all, even when I call you. It just makes me really sad to lose you as a friend."
What does that say?
emotional blackmail
She needs to understand you won't be friends when you divorce. She's trying to guilt you into being available whenever she needs something. She knows why you don't want to talk to her all the time. Would she be playing nice with you if you had behaved like she did? Neither one of you understands boundaries (that's pretty normal).
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
