If you haven't already sent it, a few suggestions, just to take some of the emotion out of it:
Originally Posted By: ImprovedRomeo
"Regarding the insurance stuff. You knew about the change months ago. I sent you an email about the change on [x date]. The new ins cards came to me on Mon afternoon. The change took effect on Wed i.e. Sep 1st. which was the date you received the card. You had the new card on Sep 1st.
Thanks for the checkup paperwork but in the future I expect advance notice on DD's checkups or anything else relating to her for that matter. [you have 50/50 legal custody, right? I would mention that here- e.g., ]"according to our 50/50 legal custody agreement, I need reasonable notice in advance for anything medical related, such as upcoming appointments, school meetings or events, and anything else concerning DD. "
Also, in the future please don't call my cell phone unless it's related to DD or an emergency."
I think that last is too much emotion involved- it lets her know she got to you. I would say, if DD is with her and you get a call, pick up the phone assuming she needs you ASAP. If DD is with you, let it go to vmail then check it as soon as you can to see what she wanted.
