Call it what it really is.... an affair brought on by loss of attraction for their existing partner and a new found attraction for a new partner. He is not out of his "affair fog", even if he isn't with someone, apparently the thought of remaining married to someone he isn't attracted to is so depressing to him that everything in his life suffers, he won't pay attention to his family or his responsibilities. The thought of his current existence with you is affecting him this much. You can ask questions like "what about love, for better/for worse, til death do us part, etc." but those are just words and we know how much they're worth.
100% true. Will be applying this to my own life/sitch.
That's it.
Originally Posted By: robx
Any of the regular readers are going to tell you what I would say next, you won't want to do it
Ah yes...
Going DARK. Setting him free...
Originally Posted By: robx
And since you won't do it, you will linger here on these forums for months/years asking for advice on what to do, how to get him back, etc.
