First off this is all very difficult and we've all been through the ringer (some still going through it).
How old are the kids? You'll never really be able to cut her out of your life completely because of the kids but once you've moved on and she's moved on she'll be like the neighbor at the end of the street who you see once in a while, say hello to and be cordial with.
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She is probably having regrets but I doubt she would ever admitt it and I am not going to ask.
It's kinda irrelevant what she's doing or thinking...as mishka said what do you want? If you're ABSOLUTELY SURE you don't want her back then go ahead and file. Take control of the situation and build your new life without her. But based on what you wrote I don't *think* you're emotionally ready to let her go? So if she came back tomorrow appologized profusely and showed remorse for what she did what would you say to her?
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
