This offically day 60 when my W left. I have had 1 email from her since she left and no other communication. My only means to communicate is via email and I do have her work address. All of my coorespondance has been positive (180 since she considerd me impatient and hot tempered). I have not spoken about R or M and have not asked her what she has been up to (180 due to my controlling issues).
I wrote an apology email and let her go on Monday, so far no legal action has taken place. Her b-day is next week so I will send a simple card and an inexpensive gift that would be sentimental to her.
My attempt is to remove the negative feelings that she has about me and begin the path to being friends. I have also lost a lot of weight that contributed to my low self-esteem and to my behavior towards her. Unfortunately, she will not be able to see that transformation at this time. I am working on GAL and getting her out of my system.
Question: Do I wait until she initiates contact (infinity and beyond) or do I finally have to do something to force her hand to communicate via mediation, etc.? It has been 60 days and I am willing to wait another 60, but there will be a time when it will not matter.
