MLC spouse projecting their negativity onto the BS

[LanceSijan]

Hi Mach1. I'm a dunce. Can you tell me how to find other posters' messages?

Go up to
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I believe that this "could" be the seed that wakes her up. Nothing is going to be quick. She will not wake up in one instant and do a 180 from where she is. Like Mach said this could be the start of where she hits bottom and starts back up, or it could push her deeper into the hole.

So, do you think the best thing I can do is give her space, leave her be, and just be a patient observer?

YES give her space.