I think that is exactly what she's doing. Unless you HAVE been out drinking with some chick, you know it's untrue. If I were you I'd add this to the other evidence you're piling up. Putting the kids in the middle of this is TOTAL BS.

I'm not very knowledgable on the legal side of things, so I don't know the answer to this, but couldn't you just file the D on her? If she and her L want to drag their feet on their suit, fine. I don't think they could do the same in response to yours.

I'm glad you're doing ok emotionally with the thought of moving forward, but this situation has got to be wearing you down. I hope you are excersicing and taking care of yourself physically. You need to stay strong and healthy for your kids.

Good luck man.


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Me: 43
W: 40
S12 & S9
Married 17yrs
Together 20yrs