I just read the last few posts of yours and what gucci is trying to say is to basically stop being sooo mushy. I am a woman and I do not like when guys are mushy. I LOVE to get flowers but I HATED getting flowers or gifts from a guy that I KNEW I was treating badly. Now when I am going out of my way for my husband and have been picking up extra slack around the house due to his work schedule or something then flowers that say "i appreciate you" are great. But why on earth would you send flowers to a woman that is not treating you in the manner that a wife should treat her husband. I am not coming down on you because I was guilty of doing the same thing while I was DBing and before husband and I reconciled. The sex can be just that sometimes...sex. Don't read into.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
