Tay, I am really sorry to hear about your kids and what they are going through. You should tell them they're asking about him an tell him he needs to explain to them why he is not home.
Originally Posted By: Tay Tay
soleil-By all that my husband is doing I am losing alot of love for him.
It's natural to feel that way. In fact it'd be weird if you felt love for him as he's saying to you that he is going to bed other women.
As for the control... he is trying to control you by trying to keep you around and calling you for things like picking him up whenever he needs it. Right now you are the fallback woman and he doesn't think you will never NOT be there for him. That is why you must go dark (which it sounds like you're doing with no contact). Good. He needs to know you won't stand for this BS. Which is exatly what it is... BS!
I don't know why he's trying to do this to you but it's NOT your problem. Let him wallow in his own self-destruction.
