That this time of hurtful decisions on his part would never erase all the years of good decisions.
As hard as this process is and as much crap our spouse throw our way, this line stood out for me. Why?
You have been pretty hard on yourself lately IB. I suspect that you are questioning some of your choices that were made in the past. Don’t! The above quote IMO…shows your true heart and character. A heart that may hurt right now BUT can clearly can look past that hurt and still show love. Even…when you are not receiving the same back. This IB…is YOU.
You should be proud of yourself and I am glad to know you IB.
Now sit back honey…and really begin the healing…cry it out. I know your hurt. I also know that it will pass. Please keep digging into your issues. Keep searching and remember…life is short you are entitled to be happy and that happiness may be with your H. So never loose hope!
First though…your old M must die…you must grieve it and then prepare yourself for a new R…a new one…one that is stronger and better…one that very well be with your H. One where the new you, the stronger you, the you that has done the work can shine. The IB...that has that heart...has that love!
Sending (((Hugs))) and prayers
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
